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Tea & Tonic

Join us on Friday, June 5, 2026 
12:30 pm - 3:30 pm




27th Annual Tea & Tonic

Join us at the 27th Annual Tea & Tonic, a signature fundraising event that raises critical funds to support survivors of relationship and sexual violence and to advance prevention efforts in our community.

With an exceptional venue, a distinguished audience, and a powerful mission at its core, Tea & Tonic is one of San Diego’s most anticipated philanthropic events of the year. Sponsors will benefit from meaningful brand visibility in the months leading up to the event and on the day itself. Our memorable speaking program will inspire conversation, along with an auction, live music, and ample opportunities to connect with community leaders, advocates, and supporters.

The Walter J. & Betty C. Zable Foundation is standing with survivors again with a $100,000 challenge match! Raise your paddle before, after, or during the event to double your impact. See FAQs below for more information.

Click here to view our Sponsorship Packet (PDF).

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Our Speakers

Nichole & Jim Schmidt

Nichole Schmidt and her husband, James “Jim” Schmidt, are the mother and stepfather of Gabby Petito, who lost her life to relationship violence in 2021. 

Gabby Petito’s story captured global attention because she was deeply relatable—a young person sharing everyday hopes, experiences, and travels online. Her highly visible journey also sparked urgent and thoughtful conversations about relationship violence, personal safety, public awareness, and how communities and systems respond when warning signs emerge.

In the wake of their unimaginable loss, Nichole and Jim committed themselves to transforming grief into purpose by advocating for survivors and raising awareness about relationship violence and missing persons. Through their advocacy and public speaking, they continue to honor Gabby’s legacy by promoting education, prevention, and community action to help prevent future tragedies.

About Gabby Petito



Gabrielle Venora Petito entered the world on March 19, 1999. Tragically, on August 27, 2021, her life was cut short at the young age of 22. She was on a cross-country road trip with her fiancé, Brian Laundrie, visiting national parks when he strangled her to death. This devastating event highlights the horrific reality that some individuals can become perpetrators of violence against those they should cherish and safeguard. Instead of safeguarding her, he committed an unforgivable act of violence, robbing her of a bright future full of possibilities. After taking the life of Gabby, the perpetrator proceeded to Florida, utilizing her van and phone to craft a facade that suggested Gabby was still alive. On September 19, 2021, Gabby's remains were discovered at Spread Creek, located near the Bridger-Teton National Forest. Brian was found dead a month later by apparent suicide. 

Gabby’s story made national headlines as the world looked for her, praying she was still alive. In response to her death, the Gabby Petito Foundation was born. Her story has inspired people around the world and will continue to help others be free from the dangers of intimate partner violence. 

Gabby was a free spirit who loved travel, art and nature. She was just starting her life as a vanlife travel vlogger and was so full of joy as her journey was just beginning. She created the YouTube channel, Nomadic Statik, where she posted about her travels. Her smile could fill a room, she loved movies, music, healthy food, and created amazing works of art. Gabby was a wonderful big sister, the oldest of six, they looked up to her and adored her. The tragic loss of Gabby has shattered their family. Their hearts will forever be broken. 

Courage Award Recipient


Today, Steph serves as the National Director of Women & Wealth at Northern Trust, leading the Elevating Women platform to advance financial literacy and help women use their wealth to achieve measurable impact on their families, businesses, and communities. A frequent media contributor, she has appeared in outlets including The Wall Street Journal, The New York Times, Barron’s, and Bloomberg.  

Steph Wagner

Each year, Center for Community Solutions recognizes an individual who has transformed their personal trauma into a strength that paves the way for others’ healing. This year we are honored to recognize Steph Wagner as our 2026 Courage Award recipient. After triumphantly rebuilding her own life, Steph shares her personal story to help other women redefine their relationship with money and gain financial independence.  Steph inspires women to turn resilience into security and possibility.


Steph Wagner is an author, a sought-after speaker, a nationally recognized thought leader in women’s wealth and financial empowerment, and the former Board President of the Center for Community Solutions, which serves survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault. 

Her debut book, Fly! A Woman’s Guide to Financial Freedom and Building a Life You Love became an instant bestseller. Drawing on her personal journey from private equity executive to stayathome mom to single mother facing financial uncertainty—and as a survivor of domestic violence—Steph is fiercely committed to helping women achieve financial autonomy, which extends into every area of their lives—including the ability to leave dangerous relationships. 

Help Survivors and Prevent Assault  

Resources for CCS Supporters

Training

The Gabby Petito Foundation offers training programs tailored for multi-disciplined domestic violence response teams. CCS supports their collaborative whole-community approach to ensure unified understanding and learning through all systems, from nonprofits to schools, faith groups, first responders, and more. Stay tuned for news of a training in our community.

About “American Murder: Gabby Petito” Netflix Documentary

“American Murder: Gabby Petito” is a three-part Netflix documentary series that chronicles the 2021 disappearance and murder of travel vlogger Gabby Petito. Directed by Jimmy Goldblum, it uses bodycam footage, police recordings, and intimate interviews to detail the, at times, toxic and abusive relationship with her fiancé, Brian Laundrie. Our 2026 Tea & Tonic speakers and other family and friends participated in the series to help bring critical awareness to domestic violence.

Click here to watch. Disclosure: This documentary contains themes that may be triggering for some. Parent discretion advised for younger viewers.

Learn more and keep vital conversations going by joining us at Tea & Tonic on Friday, June 5!  





The Venue

Hotel del Coronado


This year's Tea & Tonic will again be held at the beautiful and historic Hotel del Coronado.

1500 Orange Ave, Coronado, CA 92118


Frequently Asked Questions

Tea & Tonic will take place on Friday, June 5, from 12:30-3:30 p.m.  

11:30 a.m.   Check-in opens & silent auction area opens 

                    Champagne, hors d’oeuvres & networking 

12:30 p.m.   Lunch & program with live auction begin 

3:30 p.m.     Program ends

The suggested attire is smart casual, business, or semi-formal.

Our event typically sells out, and we are expecting over 550 guests.

The Walter J. & Betty C. Zable Foundation will match appeal donations for our Tea & Tonic up to $100,000! Your donation of $500 becomes $1,000 or $50 becomes $100.

The Walter J. & Betty C. Zable Foundation has agreed to match donations from people who want to support CCS even if they were not personally present, so your donation may be matched even if you were not able to join us. Feel free to share this opportunity with friends:

Donate for the Match

Pledges are matched through June 30, 2026. Please notify us if you think the check may arrive after June 30 so that we can still record this for the match: philanthropy@ccssd.org or scolby@ccssd.org or 858-693-2378.

Donor Advised Fund and Personal Check Instructions

Make Payable to: Center for Community Solutions

Mail to:

Center for Community Solutions

Attn: Suzie Colby

4508 Mission Bay Drive

San Diego, CA 92109

CCS is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit. Tax ID 95-6379598

Contact Suzie Colby with any questions at scolby@ccssd.org or 858-693-2378.

Questions? Please contact Chief Philanthropy Officer, Suzie Colby at scolby@ccssd.org.


CCS Circle and Community Sponsors












Sponsors

StartTheConvo

Start the Convo to raise awareness and end sexual assault. #StartTheConvo campaign is a call to action for every member of our community to give their support and #StartTheConvo around preventing intimate partner violence and sexual violence. We stand in solidarity with all survivors of intimate partner violence and sexual assault. We all have a role in ending violence.

The highest incidence of rape affects mostly yong women between the ages of 16 and 24. Don’t be a bystander! It’s time to talk with your friends, family, and loved ones! Join us as we #StartTheConvo!